Sex outside Tiger Tiger!
It seems as though the video has been removed! Sorry!
Ok, I would normally NEVER EVER post about something to do with this type of topic, but the fact that I was so disgusted with what I saw, I felt that I should share this with everyone to spread awareness. If I had kids, they would no longer be allowed to go anywhere near that club!
Claremont used to be a decent place to go out for a party with your mates, but other the years, things have just gone downhill – From girls having their drinks spiked, to awful fights, to a couple being filmed having sex right outside clubs, in the actual center! And when I say kids, I mean KIDS, the girl is apparently a grade 11 student!!!
I honestly cannot believe it :(
Here is the video link – http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=4857334660&ref=nf
Please note: There is no nudity, however this link is not for sensitive viewers, or people under the age of 18. The video is hosted on Facebook, and I have NO involvement in any of the video capturing, nor anyone involved what so ever!
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Sep 15th, 2007 at 10:22 am
Still cant find this vid mate
Sep 15th, 2007 at 10:23 am
lol @ your disclaimer btw
Sep 15th, 2007 at 10:34 am
Can’t find the video? It’s in the group mate, you can’t miss it!
Disclaimer – Well, I wouldn’t normally advertise something like this on my blog, and I want everyone to be aware of what is going on in these places. On top of that, I have absolutely NO involvement in the filming of the event.
Thanks for popping in Zayne!
Sep 15th, 2007 at 10:37 am
yeah for sure – i know lol – was just picturing voyeur chris with his handycam prowling around tigertiger lol! anyways – everytime i follow that link it says i have 2 log on so i log on and then it takes me to my own profile page so i dunno ?
Sep 15th, 2007 at 10:41 am
Haha, crawling around Stadium on Main, sneaking in some prime time news footage! And probably broken on Yager Bombs at the same time, lmao!
I can’t seem to find the video now either :/
Sep 15th, 2007 at 1:26 pm
Think someone deleted the group. That was some hectic shit. Blind for the ppl envolved
Sep 15th, 2007 at 2:10 pm
Ye, I think someone removed it, ARGH!
Sep 15th, 2007 at 2:49 pm
WTF.. thats so STUPID!!! Never saw the vid, but how old do you rate the guy was? Must have been some dumb Fool tryna get his rocks off but knew if he took the chick home his moms would probably call the cops on the count of statutory rape!
Sep 15th, 2007 at 2:52 pm
It was hard to see them clearly, but the guy looked a similar age too!
I just try to picture myself in that position.. “GET A CAR” LMAO!
Sep 15th, 2007 at 11:02 pm
I am very glad you posted the video, because I also looked out of curiosity, and then I started thinking… And I got an understanding I think of the low morale and dignity as well as the whole shebang being a royal unenjoyable mess on their behalf… He did not show one bit of care and responsibility towards her, she just did not think much of herself and “whatever… the dude must get it over with, so let me bend over 1 more time maybe he get it right this time round… shame” is probably what went through her mind at the time looking at her general response and attitude!!! I personally I feel they should pay up for there irresponsible social behaviour to learn that all individuals does have a social responsibility towards the rest of the world, secondly I think they should go for thorough psychiatric evaluation to determine where things went wrong in their lives, with the knowledge and rehabilitation behind their backs they should serve community service by rehabilitating other new kids on the block that are exactly where they were before, and thirdly, they are the children of parents and I cannot believe that parents could allow any child to have such low morale, displaying no sense of dignity and self love, not just that, the are in and amongst many teachers everyday, didn’t anyone notice and take a positive step in educating them to not just be academically schooled but in teaching them the basics of realising your human potential towards becoming responsible and dignified adults by just loving yourself, believing in yourself, finding the key to your dignity again etc… The responsible parents, and educators should be brought to book for negligence! The Children should be emotionally rehabilitated with Government funds because the tax payer are paying the government to safeguard society in general, by clearing the problem at grass route level, such as the children of today, you already take a positive step in ensuring the next generation adults to be generally well adjusted by taking responsibility for their own lives thus bringing down the crime rate in general, and once the change has been made future generations would be educated by responsible parents and adults thus making government responsibility even less! But I think for our government it is better to sit with over populated jails because it is easier manageable and not much care goes into prisoners anyway, they do what they want in our jails! Looking after society emotionally just sounds like to much effort for them I think! Thank you for letting me say my two cents worth but posting that article and me looking at it gave the cause of the issue a whole new meaning to me! Thank you! The poor overly eager guy was quiet something to see, I could not help to give it a smile! Regards
Sep 15th, 2007 at 11:11 pm
wow. some wise words there dude
Sep 16th, 2007 at 4:04 pm
@Carlu Portwig.. I am happy with the response to this article – I was worried that people would typically laugh it off and say it’s all about being young.
I now know that my readers are mature and responsible, which makes me more and more inclined to actually post very relevant articles, rather than odd videos here and there.
What took place in the video, was something that everyone can learn from, and you pointed out perfectly what should be understood by all of this.
Thank-you for your fantastic response, and thank-you for helping me express what a horrific scenario this presented.
Sep 16th, 2007 at 4:10 pm
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Sep 16th, 2007 at 11:10 pm
Carlu… I have a completely different point of view.
Do I think parents and teachers can have a part in it? Absolutely.
But it is not just the parents who do it. It’s rarely, actually, the parents. Or the teachers.
And this I know from personal experience, not only with myself, but with my sisters. We are three women with 3 very different personalities that suffer/suffered from low self-image/self-esteem stemming from 3 different places.
And my parents and teachers had nothing to do with it. It isn’t parental supervision that’s always needed. It isn’t teachers trying to tell every student that they are perfect in every way that is needed.
What is my problem? I’m not skinny. Smart? Incredibly so, to toot my own horn. But I am a size 14-16 young woman who, though I do not look morbidly obese, am classified as such by all medical books and am classified as “plus sized” and “the chunk” by popular society. But I’m smart! But what does being smart get you in today’s world if you don’t have the looks to back it up? Very little. I’m not the smooth bellied all the right curves in the right spots look like an hour glass kind of girl. I think I’m pretty dang sexy, but it’s taken me a long time and a lot of soulsearching to come to this place. In high school, I hated myself. I was a size 8 anorexic, worked out 3-6 times a week and ate very little. I was built like a freakin mountain. And I had the curves then. I had the big boobs, the curvy hips, etc. But I wasn’t drop dead gorgeous by most’s standards, because I was a size 8-10 and not a 4-6. (This is what I grew up in, yes). My middle sister was the size 4-6 who suffered from low self-esteem because she wasn’t as smart as I am (though I didn’t get it at the time). She had all the friends (that I didn’t), she had all the looks (that I didn’t), she had to social grace (that I still don’t). But she still suffered. My oldest sister had pretty good self-esteem, but felt undervalued in our family (because she got stuck with all the responsibility because of her age) and felt she never got recognized for what she did. So she struck out, rebelled.
We all did things we regret now. The girl in the video (which I didn’t see) probably is in a similar situation. But it is not necessarily her parents fault. MY parents are wonderful, loving, caring people who did EVERYTHING they could for us. We were loved, and we knew it. But it doesn’t mean a lot… peer criticism always overrides parent support. At that age, we take our parents advice with rolled eyes and the “you’re my parents, of course you’re going to say that” approach. We take our peers at point blank honest truth… because, they have no debt to us. They have no reason to have to butter us up (in our minds) or bring us down (unless there is long known emnity).
I bet her parents have no idea she has sex. I bet she’s a good student, solid in the eyes of others. I bet her teachers have never had any indication that she feels alone, disassociated from her peers for whatever reason. Many of us who end up doing things like that are. No one would ever guess we suffered from low self-esteem.
You cannot blame teachers and parents for everything. They/we do the best we can. We can only use what is shown to us, and many with self-esteem problems have had them for so long that it’s not even known… we hide them well.
Should the couple have to pay social costs for it? I’m sure they already have. And if the police would have caught them? Absolutely. Here we have public indecency laws to cover that.
Should the government pay for social rehabilitation for every poor soul who suffers from depression? Nope. Not on my tax dollars. Call me a bitch if you want, but the ones who need it the most are generally the ones who never show it. And on top of that… I bet you can’t find me a significant number of high school students/college students/young adult workers who haven’t suffered from depression at some point or another. Do you realize the cost of that? And that no matter what we do with the youth of today, there will always be something to perturb the next generation of young adult?
Not that we can’t try to teach them to love themselves, that they are unique and wonderful in their own way. But therapy isn’t always the way they have to find it out. Because they take therapists’ words the same way they take their parents’ words. “You have to say this because they pay you too.” Which in many times makes them feel worse, because now they are having to have someone be paid to say what a good person they are, because no one would do it out of their respect/admiration for them.
I could go on forever. I really could. Call it a hairtrigger, blaming teachers and parents for all the worlds woes. It’s just not like that. We create our own realities. Our parents can only do so much to make that a happy reality.
Do I think the video is a horrific occurance? Absolutely. But don’t blame the authorities first. Each case is different, and there is many times nothing anyone could do until something like this comes out.
But one thing I can blame parents for is for not instilling a respect for women in the boy’s mind. Because having sex out in the open like that, I don’t care who you are, is disrespectful. Never do anything that could endanger the others safety, mentally, emotionally, or physically.
But that goes off into another hairtrigger of lack of respect for women…
I probably didn’t get to really cover a lot of what I normally say with this. If you have any questions or want any gaps in my thinking clarified, feel free to ask me.
Sep 16th, 2007 at 11:14 pm
wow, so interesting to see everyone’s opinions! Spread this link people, let’s get more and more people involved here!
Sep 17th, 2007 at 12:55 pm
i lolled.. any 1 else got a copy of the vid? lol
Sep 17th, 2007 at 2:19 pm
Damn man, someone track the video down! The guy who started the group was called Kyle…
Sep 24th, 2007 at 8:13 pm
what is the name of the group
Sep 24th, 2007 at 8:57 pm
It has been removed :( But my sources tell me there’s a copy of the movie on slackers.co.za
Sep 25th, 2007 at 10:14 am
rofl @ sources
Sep 25th, 2007 at 11:28 am
Haha, ya well I didn’t want to name people ;)
Oct 1st, 2007 at 8:45 pm
Pity the video was removed :(
Oct 25th, 2007 at 12:59 am
Anyone ever find the video again?
Dec 5th, 2007 at 1:46 am
Wow, this topic got hot! Almost 5000 views!
Feb 22nd, 2008 at 6:21 pm
it doesnt work for me either.
Feb 22nd, 2008 at 9:07 pm
Ye, the video was removed!
Apr 4th, 2008 at 3:52 pm
If any of you guys would actually take the time to do your home work – you would clearly notice that this video was not takin in nor around Tiger Tiger in Claremont. The Video shows an empty store – well if you go to Stadium on main and ask them when the last time they had a vacant store, they will tell you it was longer than two years ago. Well at least before this video was taken.
I personally would not be blaming the club – i go out all the time and some how never find myself in these situations. It is the person themself, not the club. (Just something to think about)…
Apr 4th, 2008 at 6:25 pm
Hi Michelle, looks like you really did your home work. I was not involved in videoing the ‘act’ in any way, so I stand for correction – thank you for informing us, very interesting, were you involved in any regards, how did you hear about this?
Yes, the person is to blame, but it does relate to the club and the shopping center..
Aug 30th, 2008 at 11:29 am
Shock, horror! Oh, please, get over yourselves people. Teenagers having sex is as old as Homo sapiens. Where have you been?
[would have liked to have seen the video tho :p]
Aug 30th, 2008 at 5:30 pm
Hehe, ye, it’s terrible. Unfortunately the video was quickly removed :/