It seems as though the video has been removed! Sorry!
Ok, I would normally NEVER EVER post about something to do with this type of topic, but the fact that I was so disgusted with what I saw, I felt that I should share this with everyone to spread awareness. If I had kids, they would no longer be allowed to go anywhere near that club!
Claremont used to be a decent place to go out for a party with your mates, but other the years, things have just gone downhill – From girls having their drinks spiked, to awful fights, to a couple being filmed having sex right outside clubs, in the actual center! And when I say kids, I mean KIDS, the girl is apparently a grade 11 student!!!
I honestly cannot believe it :(
Here is the video link – http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=4857334660&ref=nf
Please note: There is no nudity, however this link is not for sensitive viewers, or people under the age of 18. The video is hosted on Facebook, and I have NO involvement in any of the video capturing, nor anyone involved what so ever!
Still cant find this vid mate
lol @ your disclaimer btw
Can’t find the video? It’s in the group mate, you can’t miss it!
Disclaimer – Well, I wouldn’t normally advertise something like this on my blog, and I want everyone to be aware of what is going on in these places. On top of that, I have absolutely NO involvement in the filming of the event.
Thanks for popping in Zayne!
yeah for sure – i know lol – was just picturing voyeur chris with his handycam prowling around tigertiger lol! anyways – everytime i follow that link it says i have 2 log on so i log on and then it takes me to my own profile page so i dunno ?
Haha, crawling around Stadium on Main, sneaking in some prime time news footage! And probably broken on Yager Bombs at the same time, lmao!
I can’t seem to find the video now either :/
Think someone deleted the group. That was some hectic shit. Blind for the ppl envolved
Ye, I think someone removed it, ARGH!
WTF.. thats so STUPID!!! Never saw the vid, but how old do you rate the guy was? Must have been some dumb Fool tryna get his rocks off but knew if he took the chick home his moms would probably call the cops on the count of statutory rape!
It was hard to see them clearly, but the guy looked a similar age too!
I just try to picture myself in that position.. “GET A CAR” LMAO!
wow. some wise words there dude
@Carlu Portwig.. I am happy with the response to this article – I was worried that people would typically laugh it off and say it’s all about being young.
I now know that my readers are mature and responsible, which makes me more and more inclined to actually post very relevant articles, rather than odd videos here and there.
What took place in the video, was something that everyone can learn from, and you pointed out perfectly what should be understood by all of this.
Thank-you for your fantastic response, and thank-you for helping me express what a horrific scenario this presented.
Carlu… I have a completely different point of view.
Do I think parents and teachers can have a part in it? Absolutely.
But it is not just the parents who do it. It’s rarely, actually, the parents. Or the teachers.
And this I know from personal experience, not only with myself, but with my sisters. We are three women with 3 very different personalities that suffer/suffered from low self-image/self-esteem stemming from 3 different places.
And my parents and teachers had nothing to do with it. It isn’t parental supervision that’s always needed. It isn’t teachers trying to tell every student that they are perfect in every way that is needed.
What is my problem? I’m not skinny. Smart? Incredibly so, to toot my own horn. But I am a size 14-16 young woman who, though I do not look morbidly obese, am classified as such by all medical books and am classified as “plus sized” and “the chunk” by popular society. But I’m smart! But what does being smart get you in today’s world if you don’t have the looks to back it up? Very little. I’m not the smooth bellied all the right curves in the right spots look like an hour glass kind of girl. I think I’m pretty dang sexy, but it’s taken me a long time and a lot of soulsearching to come to this place. In high school, I hated myself. I was a size 8 anorexic, worked out 3-6 times a week and ate very little. I was built like a freakin mountain. And I had the curves then. I had the big boobs, the curvy hips, etc. But I wasn’t drop dead gorgeous by most’s standards, because I was a size 8-10 and not a 4-6. (This is what I grew up in, yes). My middle sister was the size 4-6 who suffered from low self-esteem because she wasn’t as smart as I am (though I didn’t get it at the time). She had all the friends (that I didn’t), she had all the looks (that I didn’t), she had to social grace (that I still don’t). But she still suffered. My oldest sister had pretty good self-esteem, but felt undervalued in our family (because she got stuck with all the responsibility because of her age) and felt she never got recognized for what she did. So she struck out, rebelled.
We all did things we regret now. The girl in the video (which I didn’t see) probably is in a similar situation. But it is not necessarily her parents fault. MY parents are wonderful, loving, caring people who did EVERYTHING they could for us. We were loved, and we knew it. But it doesn’t mean a lot… peer criticism always overrides parent support. At that age, we take our parents advice with rolled eyes and the “you’re my parents, of course you’re going to say that” approach. We take our peers at point blank honest truth… because, they have no debt to us. They have no reason to have to butter us up (in our minds) or bring us down (unless there is long known emnity).
I bet her parents have no idea she has sex. I bet she’s a good student, solid in the eyes of others. I bet her teachers have never had any indication that she feels alone, disassociated from her peers for whatever reason. Many of us who end up doing things like that are. No one would ever guess we suffered from low self-esteem.
You cannot blame teachers and parents for everything. They/we do the best we can. We can only use what is shown to us, and many with self-esteem problems have had them for so long that it’s not even known… we hide them well.
Should the couple have to pay social costs for it? I’m sure they already have. And if the police would have caught them? Absolutely. Here we have public indecency laws to cover that.
Should the government pay for social rehabilitation for every poor soul who suffers from depression? Nope. Not on my tax dollars. Call me a bitch if you want, but the ones who need it the most are generally the ones who never show it. And on top of that… I bet you can’t find me a significant number of high school students/college students/young adult workers who haven’t suffered from depression at some point or another. Do you realize the cost of that? And that no matter what we do with the youth of today, there will always be something to perturb the next generation of young adult?
Not that we can’t try to teach them to love themselves, that they are unique and wonderful in their own way. But therapy isn’t always the way they have to find it out. Because they take therapists’ words the same way they take their parents’ words. “You have to say this because they pay you too.” Which in many times makes them feel worse, because now they are having to have someone be paid to say what a good person they are, because no one would do it out of their respect/admiration for them.
I could go on forever. I really could. Call it a hairtrigger, blaming teachers and parents for all the worlds woes. It’s just not like that. We create our own realities. Our parents can only do so much to make that a happy reality.
Do I think the video is a horrific occurance? Absolutely. But don’t blame the authorities first. Each case is different, and there is many times nothing anyone could do until something like this comes out.
But one thing I can blame parents for is for not instilling a respect for women in the boy’s mind. Because having sex out in the open like that, I don’t care who you are, is disrespectful. Never do anything that could endanger the others safety, mentally, emotionally, or physically.
But that goes off into another hairtrigger of lack of respect for women…
I probably didn’t get to really cover a lot of what I normally say with this. If you have any questions or want any gaps in my thinking clarified, feel free to ask me.
wow, so interesting to see everyone’s opinions! Spread this link people, let’s get more and more people involved here!
i lolled.. any 1 else got a copy of the vid? lol
Damn man, someone track the video down! The guy who started the group was called Kyle…
what is the name of the group
It has been removed :( But my sources tell me there’s a copy of the movie on slackers.co.za
rofl @ sources
Haha, ya well I didn’t want to name people ;)
Pity the video was removed :(
Anyone ever find the video again?
Wow, this topic got hot! Almost 5000 views!
it doesnt work for me either.
Ye, the video was removed!
If any of you guys would actually take the time to do your home work – you would clearly notice that this video was not takin in nor around Tiger Tiger in Claremont. The Video shows an empty store – well if you go to Stadium on main and ask them when the last time they had a vacant store, they will tell you it was longer than two years ago. Well at least before this video was taken.
I personally would not be blaming the club – i go out all the time and some how never find myself in these situations. It is the person themself, not the club. (Just something to think about)…
Hi Michelle, looks like you really did your home work. I was not involved in videoing the ‘act’ in any way, so I stand for correction – thank you for informing us, very interesting, were you involved in any regards, how did you hear about this?
Yes, the person is to blame, but it does relate to the club and the shopping center..
Shock, horror! Oh, please, get over yourselves people. Teenagers having sex is as old as Homo sapiens. Where have you been?
[would have liked to have seen the video tho :p]
Hehe, ye, it’s terrible. Unfortunately the video was quickly removed :/